Here's a monthly breakdown of groups & individuals who donated, with the $ amount, and total for the month:
Accommodating Members with Special Needs
Not all meetings can accommodate special needs, but there are a lot of steps groups can take toward welcoming anyone, anywhere.
Look up your group on al-anon.org to see what information is provided.
Last Call for At-Large Résumés!
The World Service Office (WSO) needs your experience, strength, and hope. Have you considered serving as a Volunteer on a WSO At-Large Committee? These Committees help provide direction regarding our Conference Approved Literature, major Public Outreach projects, and which sharings to include in The Forum, as well as oversee our annual audit.
At-Large members must have at least five years of continuous Al‑Anon experience to serve. Submit your résumé at al-anon.org/at-large by October 29, 2025.
I’ve Been Elected to a Service Role—What’s Next?
I felt comfortable in my early days of attending Al-Anon, but I noticed some members had what seemed to be “official” roles. Someone received information and shared it with the group, another member collected our contributions, and a secretary recorded our business meeting notes. I didn’t know how these positions were assigned until our group held elections. During our quarterly business meeting, the trusted servants took the time to describe their roles. The simplicity intrigued me, as well as the group members’ assurance that I would not be alone in any service journey. At the time, I relied on other members doing most of the work, allowing myself to help only with projects requiring little commitment. Help was always just a question away.
When I began to feel comfortable with the positive changes recovery was bringing to my life, I decided to branch out into service to support my group. The Group Representative (GR) position became available, and I was the only group member interested. I thought this meant a guaranteed position, but I learned that members act with care when making the informed decision of electing a GR. We still held the election, and I was voted in.
With the election came the fear: What am I supposed to know? Who can I ask for help, and how do I connect with them? I remembered that help was always just a question away. Members wanted me to succeed. This level of support was something I hadn’t experienced much outside of the program. I was encouraged to ask the previous GR questions, always refer to the current Al‑Anon/Alateen Service Manual (P-24/27) and the Group Representatives Guideline (G-11), lean on a Service Sponsor, and take it “One Day at a Time.” My Service Sponsor encouraged me to be myself in the position, reminding me that we are not all the same.
My service as a GR allowed me to meet members throughout my District. When my GR term ended, my Service Sponsor encouraged me to stand for District Representative (DR). Once elected as the DR, I felt the same fear I had experienced before. Representing a District was a bit different than representing a group. I remembered the tools I used to become an informed GR and applied them to my new position. The growth I experienced paved the way for more service roles, including World Service Delegate for my Area.
As I rotated out of these service positions at the end of each three-year term, I made sure that I was available to share my experience, strength, and hope, along with other available resources if needed, with the next person stepping in. I wanted to follow the loving example that had been set for me.
By Christa A., Senior Group Services Specialist
“Inside Al-Anon Family Groups” presents news, policy, and commentary from volunteers, staff and readers sharing experience through service. Please feel free to reprint these articles on your service structure website or newsletter, along with this credit line: Reprinted with permission of Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, VA.
Carrying the Al-Anon Message Online
Whether we use social media to connect with friends and family or follow our favorite interests, [CC1] it has become a large part of our lives. Social media is one way we can carry the Al‑Anon message, but it can be tricky.
The Social Media Policy found in the Public Outreach section of the “Digest of Al-Anon and Alateen Policies” in the Al‑Anon/Alateen Service Manual (P-24/27) provides guidance about using social media to spread our message of help and hope to those suffering as a result another person’s alcoholism.
The Policy provides carefully defined service authority, such as who can create Al-Anon or Alateen social media pages/profiles and what roles groups and members can take on, so that each member and service arm can understand the role they play in using this avenue for carrying the message.
While sharing the message of help and hope to families and friends of alcoholics on social media, members are encouraged to practice obedience to the unenforceable by adhering [VF2] [ER3] to Al‑Anon Traditions. Tradition Eleven states, in part, “Our public relations policy is based on attraction rather than promotion; we need always maintain personal anonymity at the level of press, radio, films, and TV.” This applies to our online presence as well, as does Tradition Twelve, which states, “Anonymity is the spiritual foundation of all our Traditions, ever reminding us to place principles above personalities.”
“Inside Al-Anon Family Groups” presents news, policy, and commentary from volunteers, staff and readers sharing experience through service. Please feel free to reprint these articles on your service structure website or newsletter, along with this credit line: Reprinted with permission of Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, VA.
Identifying and Guarding Against Outside Issues
I've always had an opinion, but I didn’t always have a safe place to express it, so I kept it hidden to avoid family ridicule. As I grew into an adult, trying to express my opinions sometimes sounded like I was picking a fight. Didn’t sharing my opinion imply that I wanted you to agree with it and maybe even appreciate my brilliant thinking and aspire to think like me? Because I lacked the skills to express my opinion, I could easily be swayed to change my opinion to match yours.
My home group reads the Twelve Traditions at each meeting and studies the Tradition that corresponds with that month at its first meeting. It was interesting to hear that my group did not have an opinion on anything that might distract us from helping families and friends of alcoholics. Did I have an opinion about that? I did! I wanted everyone to understand the importance of keeping the Al‑Anon program pure. I was ready to fight to the end to defend the reasoning, even to the point that I no longer knew what I was talking about. I was going to express my opinion whether anyone liked it or not!
Then I heard members who knew what they were talking about share some spiritual principles with the group, emphasizing the importance of the clear and consistent message of recovery we find in Al‑Anon Family Groups. I learned how to define an outside issue by putting ideas through a filter that looked for our common bond of being affected by the family disease of alcoholism. As the principles became clearer, I realized that sharing how to practice a specific meditation, for example, is an outside issue, whereas sharing that I practice meditation as part of my recovery is consistent with our principles. Other examples include sharing political or religious views or outside literature—no matter how compelling, moving, or informative, it does not carry the wisdom of the Twelve Steps as expressed in our own Conference Approved Literature (CAL). The Al‑Anon Focus/Declaration Table Card (S-24) is a wonderful tool to display in meetings to help separate principles from personalities.
I no longer feel like an outsider when we come together, because we have all been affected by the disease of alcoholism. Not knowing what walks of life other members come from—what their professions are or what other Twelve Step programs they may belong to, for instance—allows me to concentrate on the Al‑Anon program of recovery without the distraction of wondering how I measure up to them. I can also recognize that members may have different opinions about and responses to current local or world issues than I do, but I don’t have to be concerned with those.
It comforts me to see how our Traditions add tremendous value to preserving the message of help and hope we can gain when we apply the tools of the Al‑Anon program to our lives. I’ve grown now to understand the importance of focusing on our similarities rather than our differences. I know how to sit quietly and then patiently inform other members about our spiritual principles when necessary, allowing their reactions to pass without resistance or hype and without adding fuel to the fire. Bringing this practice into my relationships with family and friends allows me to maintain peace and serenity. Identifying and guarding against outside issues helps me with my responsibility of carrying this message of help and hope to others.
By Christa A., Group Services & Alateen Coordinator
Reprinted with permission of Al‑Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, VA.
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Understanding the “Reported Not Meeting” Process
Have you ever arrived at an Al-Anon or Alateen meeting only to find that the door was locked, that the location was incorrect, or that it had been canceled altogether? This can be incredibly frustrating and disappointing, especially for newcomers. Think back to when you attended your first meeting—if the door had been locked, would you have come back?
To address this issue, the World Service Office (WSO) provides a “Report an Issue” link for each meeting listed in the meeting search on al-anon.org. This allows individuals to notify the WSO if meeting information appears to be inaccurate.
When an issue is reported, WSO Staff will follow up with the affected group, and the meeting information will be temporarily removed from the search until its status can be verified. A notification will be emailed to the Current Mailing Address (CMA) to inform the group of the reported issue. If the group doesn’t respond within three business days, the matter will be escalated to the Area Group Records Coordinator for further assistance. If the meeting information cannot be verified within 90 days, the group is inactivated and removed from the meeting search.
Verifying your group information regularly and reporting changes promptly is crucial. You can submit your Al-Anon group change online at al-anon.org/grp-update anytime throughout the year.
“Inside Al-Anon Family Groups” presents news, policy, and commentary from volunteers, staff and readers sharing experience through service. Please feel free to reprint these articles on your service structure website or newsletter, along with this credit line: Reprinted with permission of Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, VA.
Experiencing the Joy of Service
What does the saying, “When I Got Busy, I Got Better” mean to you? For me, this statement rings true. I remember the feeling I experienced when I had been in Al-Anon for about a year and my home group elected me to serve as the Group Treasurer. First of all, I could hardly believe that the members trusted me with the group’s treasury. Second, I was honored to assist with this important task. I handled my position with great care, and as I experienced the joy of service, I encountered growth in my recovery as well!
I remember being drawn to the members in my home group who had smiles on their faces and were cheerful despite what they shared about their personal lives during meetings. These members were applying the Al‑Anon principles in all their affairs. And guess what? They were involved in Al-Anon service! I gravitated toward those people in service because I sensed that it would benefit my recovery. And it did!
Would you like to experience more growth in your recovery and encounter the joy of service?
Yes? That’s a great answer because it is election time for multiple Areas, and there are many opportunities to serve. Standing for a position, whether it is for your group’s Treasurer, a District Representative, or the Area Delegate can bring about the joy of service. Maybe you are eligible for a position at the Area level, or perhaps you are fairly new and can agree to serve as your group’s literature person or the CMA (Current Mailing Address). There are quite a few service opportunities from which to choose.
Are you wondering where to find more information about elections?
I encourage you to consider reading “Elections” in the “World Service Handbook” section of the Al-Anon/Alateen Service Manual (P-24/27). The “Handbook” explains how Al-Anon is held together worldwide, how it is structured, and how our trusted servants can best function within our structure. Specifically, “Elections” describes elections “At the Group Level,” “At the District Level,” and “At the Assembly Level.” There are also pages that describe the typical Election Assembly Procedure.
Raise your hand if you want to experience the joy of service and catapult your recovery to the next level!
I invite you to click on Free Downloadable Items at al-anon.org/literatureand take a look at Al-Anon’s Joy of Service (S-57) leaflet as you consider stepping up to serve.
By Suzanne M., Associate Director—World Service Events & History
Reprinted with permission of Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, VA.
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