As we celebrate 75 years of Al-Anon Family Groups, we honor the vision of Lois W. and Anne B. who founded the Clearing House in 1951 to share the collective wisdom of members with members. Through letters, newsletters, and the development of Conference Approved Literature, the Clearing House became the heartbeat of our fellowship.
Thirty years ago, in 1996, the Clearing House, known as the World Service Office (WSO), relocated from New York to Virginia Beach, Virginia. The move was prompted by the rising rental costs in New York and the Board’s fiduciary responsibility to make best use of the members’ Seventh Tradition contributions. While the location changed, the mission did not. Today, WSO Staff continue to support the Al-Anon Family Groups by responding to member correspondence, publishing electronic newsletters, developing Conference Approved Literature, and more.
In 2020, Al-Anon Family Groups launched its first mobile app, the Al-Anon Family Groups Mobile App, which includes a way for members to meet electronically. In doing so, the WSO became more than a clearinghouse; it also became a virtual venue. Just as local churches, libraries, or community centers provide a key to access the space for in-person meetings, WSO Staff now provide login credentials to access the meeting rooms within the Mobile App. As with physical venues, challenges can arise, whether technical or related to access. For groups meeting in the Mobile App, those challenges are appropriately raised with the WSO Staff responsible for maintaining the virtual venue.
Through every challenge, our principles endure: unity, service, and self-support. For 75 years, WSO has continued to support the shared wisdom and flow that move through our fellowship, keeping us connected through letters, literature, and now, logins.
Reprinted with permission of Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, VA.


• Interested in revitalizing Al-Anon service in your Area?
• Could your Area use a refresher on the links of service?
• Do you have a new panel that might benefit from some service inspiration?
• Are you connected with a growing Spanish-speaking District that would appreciate
encouragement and support?
• Are there any vacant Area roles where some renewed enthusiasm could make a
difference?
Inviting World Service Office (WSO) Staff and Volunteers to your Area Assembly or
Convention can be a meaningful way to deepen our shared commitment to Al-Anon’s
spiritual principles and service legacy.
These visits offer so much more than information; they bring the gift of experience,
strength, and hope. Whether your Area is welcoming a new panel, exploring the links of
service, or nurturing growth in a Spanish-speaking District, the presence of WSO
representatives can help illuminate our service paths with clarity, experience and
encouragement.
Their participation can foster unity and understanding, helping Areas navigate service
challenges with grace and mutual respect. Through open dialogue and shared experience,
trusted servants are reminded that we are never alone in service and that our fellowship
extends far beyond our local boundaries.
If you are interested in inviting a WSO Staff member or Volunteer to your Area in person or
virtually, follow your Area’s established process. These connections can renew
enthusiasm, strengthen collaboration, and deepen our spiritual connection to the
worldwide fellowship of Al-Anon Family Groups.
These visits can serve as a beautiful reminder that “Together We Can Make It!”
Reprinted with permission of Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc.,
Virginia Beach, Virginia, USA.

An Al-Anon Group Is an Al-Anon Group—Even Online
I wasn’t sure what bothered me about electronic Al-Anon groups when I first started attending them. They were new and different to me, and with my camera off and a made-up name, I could be completely invisible. I could drop in and out when I felt like it, without considering any disruption I might cause or sharing in the responsibility of serving the group. This made me vaguely uncomfortable, but the convenience swept me off my feet: I could do some household tasks or “just listen in,” letting the other members carry the meeting.
Then I started comparing my participation in electronic meetings with my participation in face-to-face meetings. The difference was stark! When I realized how little effort I put into “attending” an electronic meeting, I decided to change the way I showed up. I started joining the meeting on time and making myself available to help ensure the meeting opened when it was supposed to and included helpful topics. I sat up straight, kept my camera on, and paid attention. I started doing my best to recognize that an Al-Anon group is an Al-Anon group; whether we meet in a hospital conference room, a church basement, or on an electronic platform, it still remains an Al-Anon group.
Now, when I attend an Al-Anon meeting online, I think about how I’m supporting the group and how that affects Al-Anon as a whole. Am I contributing by serving, sharing in leadership, and taking turns so as not to control? Do I contribute financially to the electronic “basket” even though the expenses for the electronic platform or welcome materials are not obvious to me? Do I encourage other members to participate in the group and share Al-Anon-related announcements? Do I participate in group business meetings to keep the group informed and vibrant?
When I first started attending Al-Anon, I had only three face-to-face weekly meetings to choose from in a 40-mile radius, no matter the weather or any unexpected obligations that came up. After all these insights, I’m more grateful than ever for the many ways I can find recovery in an Al-Anon group—whether in person or online, almost anytime.
By Christa A.
Group Services & Alateen Coordinator
“Inside Al-Anon Family Groups” presents news, policy, and commentary from volunteers, staff and readers sharing experience through service. Reprinted with permission of Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, VA.
Turning Unmanageability into Creativity
I’ve been in Al‑Anon for five years. During this time, I attempted an intervention for my husband, which did not go well. After that, we separated, and now I am in the process of divorcing after 16 years of marriage.
Recently, it was brought to my attention that he is seeing someone and has introduced this new partner and her daughter to our children.
Instead of yelling at him and telling him how he is hurting our children—during an already hard season of losing the family dynamic they have always known and being bounced back and forth between two households, now adding in meeting a new girlfriend and her daughter—I simply asked my children how they felt.
By keeping the focus on myself and my kids, I haven’t escalated the situation. This approach has helped me avoid adding drama to a situation that is beyond my control. Instead, I try to create beauty and focus on what I can influence. Sewing has been a creative outlet I have used during this hard season of separation and divorce (when I got busy, I got better!).
For example, on one particularly hard night, when I was working on the problem rather than the program, I went home after work and spent five hours at my sewing machine. This resulted in a beautiful quilt for my daughter’s school auction. I call this “rage sewing.” Now, whenever I struggle with obsessive thinking, I know it’s time to start a new sewing project to redirect my energy.
Through these experiences, I have learned there is beauty in the struggle and hope and healing in the journey. I am grateful to Al‑Anon for helping me recognize the part I have played in the ongoing drama and showing me how I can do things differently now.
By Jaimee M., Ohio
Reprinted with permission of The Forum, Al‑Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, VA.
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Courage to See the Good
Some days, all I notice in my partner are the things that drive me crazy, even though he is sober. My nerves are on edge. It feels like the same tension repeating over and over. How do I interrupt this negative cycle?
It's simple: I “Let It Begin with Me,” even though it feels awkward. I make a conscious effort to see and acknowledge something good in my husband. I look him in the eyes, and I express my appreciation, praising his character, complimenting him, and thanking him for his kindness toward me.
It’s easy to spot flaws, but in Al‑Anon I learn the skill of noticing the positives. It takes courage to push my ego out of the way. It takes courage to say it out loud, with kindness, to him. These challenges are not meant to break me. They are meant to help me grow and become the person I am meant to be—strong, loving, and gracious.
This change in my attitude can aid my marriage—and all my affairs—by making every relationship stronger, because I am becoming stronger. I am growing into a better person.
So, I find something positive and say it out loud. I practice kindness as I would with a fellow member or a newcomer—the way I would like my husband to be with me. “God, grant me the courage…”
By Chava, Israel
Reprinted with permission of The Forum, Al‑Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, VA.
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